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Just because you hear something often does not make it true! Mind yourself what you listen to!

Take time to reflect on where GOD has brought you from. Reflect on where you desire to be! Reflect on the good and make more good to happen. Reflect on your mistake, and learn from it, put it behind you and move on to get better!  Nothing you are doing is worthless, as long as you are doing the right thing.  You realise that  during a car race, the winner is observed to always drive corner by corner! Do not measure yourself with the success of others! Take your time and keep moving. Do not stop!  Your chances of winning are as big as the sky! Keep keeping up!

Merry Christmas to you all my family and friends. Joy is the season, and it is all yours now and forever. Amen. Let us celebrate!

"What exactly works for me?" Too many how to do's and why you should not do's. Have you taken time to really find out what works for you? This question popped up in my head, and I thought I should share with you friends. You must find out what works for you as an individual, as a couple, as a student etc . Do not assume that because a particular principle worked for a certain person or couple, same would work for you. GOD made us special, so discover your specialty. Food for thought! 

In a True friendship, ego is less important. Truth is an absolute ultimate goal, not a moving target. Friendship/Relationship is valued and guarded, not inconsequential. Success is not as fulfilling as faithfulness. The key to a healthy relationship is honour, love and respect.  As the year wraps up, let us drop every negativity, and chanel our energies into ensuring a more positive living. At the end, what matters is the lives you and I affected, positively or negatively. Nothing else.

You are what you call yourself! No matter your shortcomings, do not give call yourself "short". Tell yourself, I will do better next time. Learn to encourage yourself and say no pity party!

What are you changing into? A better person or worse? Because you cannot beat them, you chose to join them? Have you not heard or do you not know that you are more than you think? Why do you cast yourself down? Why do you look down on yourself? You are more than you think! Let people see you change for the best, not to someone who has been caught up in the crowd.  Carve your own niche and the world will follow you. Stop hiding! Come out! Let your God-given abilities come through. You are able and you can do it!  Happy new week friends.....Yes!!!! It's Christmas week, you should be excited. Something good happens when the atmosphere is joyful! I celebrate you all my friends.  Merry Christmas!!!!

There will be haters...oh most definitely! There will be doubters, always! There will be those who do not believe in your course, the non believers. There will be kickers- kicking against your destiny! And then.....There will be you, proving them wrong!  What say you?  Prove them wrong- by not quitting!

What are those obstacles standing in your way? Is it your past mistakes, failures, hard experiences? Use them as fuel for a forward progress!  Let me give you an instance. When you are driving and you sight a road block ahead of you, what do you do? You start planning on how to manoeuvre the road blocks isn't it? That is also what these obstacles are for. You make mistakes so you can learn that there is always a better way and that helps you to think out the best way!  If you made a mistake and you are still blaming yourself, then it means you never learnt anything-you have not yet seen your mistakes as a big lesson!  Until you start seeing your mistakes as a lesson, you will continue to fail! But when you see your mistakes, failures as a lesson, you will want to carefully learn your lessons, find out where and why you failed, and then you will begin to strategically make plans for a big come-back!  Use your obstacles, do not let your obstacles use you! Never let

Your thoughts will eventually become your ways! What are the content of your thoughts?

Hope is powerful; hold it firmly. A living dog is better than a dead lion. 

Have you noticed that most times, you only get to realise that you have been "doing great" and people have been watching even though no one is telling you "well done", when you make a mistake or fail? That is when you will start hearing people say, "oh, you should have continued to do it they way you used to do it", or why did you not do it that way? , or "what happened to you? You are not looking as beautiful as you used to". And you be like, "so you've been watching me and you aren't saying anything?" Oh yes, people have been watching you! The truth is, most times they are watching to see you fail. That is why you should never feel discouraged or intimidated when people don't applaud or commend you or your work. Keep moving!  Have you also not noticed that people say a lot of "sorry ooo" than "well done, that was a good one"? Refuse sympathy!!!! Keep doing what you are doing! The world is watching

With no reason to get up in the morning, life can start to really get you down. The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose. You might be doing what you love and have flair for, yet you have not started earning money out of it; that does not mean you should stop! Continue! As long as you find fulfilment in your skill, stay focused, you will get there!  An adage says that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a step. Do not give up yet if you have not given it a try! Success is a process! If you are doing something or you are in a relationship that has no purpose, it simply means you have no value for your life. 

Today, the welfare company of my local church conducted a free blood pressure check on her members, and it will shock you to know that most of the results called for serious attention. Yours truly also did not have a good result and I keep asking myself how?  You see, as healthy and beautiful you look, If you do not make out time to take care of yourself- your health,  you will wear out! We hear cases of young people who "just slumped" and died! That is as a result of high blood pressure. We have so ignored ourselves because of the worries of tomorrow and as such, we do not take time off. All we do is "work work work, " ,and no time at all to "rest rest rest!" I plead with you my dear friends, let us pay attention to our health. Make checking your blood pressure a weekly routine and create time to rest your body- very important! It is best to be healthy to enjoy the fruits of your hard work! Moms and Dads, you all are doing well.. ensure to take

Sometimes, things have to go wrong in order to go right. This I realised in the long run- of life's experience! In that situation you are right now, see GOD! DO NOT QUIT!