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I always tell myself that I may not be there yet, but I am closer than I was yesterday!  The truth is, if we are facing the right direction, all we have to do is to keep walking! A lot of people are desperate for change and are wishing for opportunities that will bring forth that desired change.  Robert Louis Stevenson said, "They say opportunity knocks....well I say not everything that knocks is an opportunity, I'm looking through the peephole first". So let us be careful to look through before welcoming any opportunity because of fear of failure! The best story is the story of a man who fell and got up to stand strong. Your story cannot  be outstanding if everything in life has been smooth.  The failures you have will jump-start you to success! Sir Philip Green went through four business failures before making his first million at the age of 33.  Forget the failures of the past. The life of great men/women has many beginnings. If you failed, be

The world will either pity you or envy you! Which one would you prefer? 

"I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions, I have been entrusted to take the winning shots and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And this is why I succeed."  It does not matter how many times you have failed, as long as you do not quit, you will be next to tell your story! Be inspired!  Photo credit: Getty Images

Each day is a blessing!  We do not need to wait for a particular set day to  be thankful. Let each day of our lives be filled with thanksgiving!  May GOD to whom all thanks is due be praised forever in JESUS Name! Amen!!!  Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

With the holidays approaching, we all have the high tendency to procrastinate, even when we have so much to do! In fact, the work that used to be easy has suddenly become more demanding to get around with.. Am i speaking someone's mind? We want to make excuses, by engaging in something else. But guess what, the work keeps piling up! Procrastination is not healthy at all, you will agree with me!  We cannot expect to finish our work well, be productive, improve on ourselves, even our health most importantly, when we keep procrastinating. We need to get rid of the negative habits that lead us to procrastinate in the first place. What is that you want to accomplish? You must focus on all the positive things that are going to happen when you succeed!  When you believe you can do something, and you visualize the positive things that will come from succeeding, you equip yourself to accomplishing your desired results. Easier said than done right? But let us give it a try- let

Someone once said, "If you do not feel excited about your relationship;  you do not always think about your partner, plan for the future or sacrifice for the relationship, your commitment level is low." I totally agree! My mom told me that, to make a relationship work, your commitment must be unequivocal- meaning that you have clearly and undoubtedly made up your mind concerning the relationship- no hanky panky games! It takes a high level of maturity and spiritual discernment to understand the principles and sacrifices of marriage!  Lack of commitment to your relationship will only sap life from it! If only one partner is committed to the relationship, it will not succeed! No matter how much you are ready to sacrifice for the success of the relationship, if your partner does not support and encourage your efforts, everything you do will eventually be wasted!  If you are the one struggling, sweating and fighting to keep your relationship alive, you have become a

Congratulations Tuface! Keep inspiring the world!  Nigeria Ingenious Musician, Tuface Idibia, in the company of his wife Annie, was honoured by HRH Bagudu Galadima of Kudendan Kingdom, in Kaduna today, the 24th of November, 2015 with the chieftaincy title, Tafindan Kudendan, which means Ambassador for peace,while his wife was crowned as Matan Tafida. The ceremony took place at the Kudendan palace. See photo of Tuface and his wife:  Happy and excited Annie, shared her joy on her instagram page. See below: Photo credit: @annieidibia1 instagram handle

I have come to realise that problems are strong motivational force! They make us discover our true selves, our importance, that is if you truly accept that the situation you are in is not your final bus stop- if you do not give up! They enable us value those close to us. So never be intimidated by problems. We have our GOD given abilities to deal with situations. Think about it this way; you are a solution to problems- to someone's problems. Have a beautiful night rest friends.

You can walk with respect even when you have past failures. Your past will never define you if you do not let it! It is not what people say about you that makes you different. It is what you say about yourself, and what GOD has said about you that really matters!  Just because someone called you "names" does not mean you have to act like that or that is who you are! Be sure to know this, the content of your heart matters a lot to however far you want to go in living the life you desire!  The past is a terrible place to dwell on, I must tell you. Yes you failed, but that does not mean the end of the world for you. Leave the past behind you and forge ahead dear friend! Your past does not define you! 

Happy wedding anniversary to my husband and I!!! It has been a great journey and I give GOD all glory for HIS mercy thus far! I want to share with you something very important, and I hope someone gets the message.  It is very important to know that it is not enough that a man loves you or is crazy about you. But that you equally love him too. Some women assume that the issue of whether or not a woman loves a man is inconsequential. They believe that all that matters is that as long as the man they date and marry is capable of taking care of their needs and that he loves them, then their lives will be as sweet as ever. This is not completely true, especially in our world today!  From my research, most of the women I spoke with agree with me that those who thread this line of thought are actually ignorant of the reality of their reasoning and surely do not know the difference between waking up, day after day and year after year, beside a man you do not love or you are just

Some people want to be applauded, but have you asked yourself, to whom the applause benefits, you or others? 

May I remind you that there is a difference between selfishness and self love. Self love is knowing your worth and value as a human being and accepting yourself for who you are.  There are certain things about yourself you may not like. You may not like your face, hair, nose, head or your forehead, the size of your breast, your weight and so on. But if you want to live in peace, you must accept your body and yourself just the way you are.  No matter how much people admire you, if you do not love yourself, you will never see how beautiful you are or you will never accept yourself the way you are!  Years ago as a teenager, I battled with the lies of thinking I was not beautiful enough and It was a big deal whenever I received compliments from people. But when I began to pay more attention to myself, I began to realise that I am not just beautiful, but wonderfully and beautifully made for a divine purpose! You too can!  Ignore the trend, the make beliefs and embrace

21st November is here! Happy beautiful, glorious, victorious birthday to me, Chinemerem! Phew! What can I say? It's been GOD all the way!  I am a living proof of GODS grace and mercy! I am so so so blessed! Thank you LORD JESUS for being so good and kind to me!  Here is  me saying, I am here on earth for a very long long long long time, fulfilling my purpose! There is no place at the back for me! I am above only and not beneath. I am the head and not the tail! I am a shining light! I shine so brightly. Nothing can and will stop me from fulfilling GODS purpose for my life!  I am lifted! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

A few days ago, I carefully listened to Julius Agwu's interview, one of Nigeria's ingenious comedians, and he made striking comments about friends and his experience with people he thought he had built some connection with overtime...after his analysis he came to the resolution which communicated his strong paradigm shift. Apparently, he became aware that people he thought were his friends were only but colleagues. I was emotionally triggered as he shared his major concerns, but I was also inspired to think differently...and as well share my thoughts with you.  Think about this carefully...who are your friends? I should have asked this second question first but anyways...what is your definition of friendship?  Well, given the dynamic move in moral and ethical standards, it seems that the definition of friendship has become relative and people have their personal criteria for measuring or defining what friendship is. But inspite of these notions, there is still a f

Nemerulez Blog is one year today!!!! I am deeply grateful to GOD for helping me keep up, even when I had all the reasons to quit! GOD'S word is indeed true when HE says, it's not by might neither is it by power, but by my SPIRIT says the LORD!  Thank you LORD JESUS for bringing me thus far, and I know that you will continue to help me all the way! Thank you for making this day possible, because I have seen a lot of people who started blogging but could not continue! It is very discouraging to not have people encourage your work! I know how that feels. I am very grateful to GOD for the ones who came through for me; who stood by me, my ardent readers and my faithful followers- yes I have 418 followers- and 907,083 views! This is great! You guys are amazing and I couldn't have made it this far without your supports and encouragements. Thank you all!  Nemerulez Blog is stronger and better. Just watch out for more great stuff. You care to join  this moving trai

The journey has not been easy right? I know....I can relate with your situation. Wasn't an easy road for me too, but what gave me hope to carry on was my dreams. I have so much I believe GOD has put inside of me, and in spite of getting bent over  by the situation i was in, I chose to see the brighter future. Nobody cares about how you feel or what you are battling with right? Your actions are been misread and misjudged right? You wish someone will  see right through you, instead of assuming the wrong about you? You wish a miracle will just happen for you right now right? You are too tired of failed promises? You are too tired to make people see reasons with you? You are scared of setting that idea in motion because you are afraid it will not work out? The list goes on! But hang in there my dear friend, help is on the way.  Choose to have some faith and believe! Keep hope alive.  Most times, if not all the time, the most difficult part of any endeavour is taking t

No one wants to intimately associate with fault finders who have cynical outlook to life. No one wants to make friends with people who complain all the time or who are negative in their approach to living! We all want positive people in our lives, isn't it? But you cannot attract positive people into your life if you are a negative minded person!