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Do not always be afraid to make mistakes. And do not envy those who tell you that they have never made mistakes. Your experiences make you have more advanced knowledge about life and how to deal with people, situations.  You are at a more advantage over these people than they can ever imagine.  In fact, count it a privilege that you have an opportunity to give it a try ones more. If you keep avoiding people(to stay away from making mistakes), how will you learn?  An adage says "a person who has never made mistakes has never achieved anything".

Everything a woman has to offer to her husband is actually within her. It is not in the accumulation of outer trappings. As much as a woman has needs, so does the man.

THE FOOL REVENGES, THE WISE FORGIVES.  

No matter the plans of our detractors, I see a great Nigeria.  I see a new Nigeria. I see a redeemed Nigeria.  My hope is not in Buhari, but in GOD who is going to use him to salvage my dear great country.  Long live Nigeria.  GOD bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria. GOD bless President Muhammadu Buhari!  Photo credit : Linda Ikeji

Fellow countrymen and women, in a couple of hours,  Mohammadu Buhari (MB) would have taken the oath of office as our President and Commander in Chief of our great nation. I have used the adjective "great" out of my incurable optimism of a great Nigeria, the giant of Africa, and my resolute conviction that if well governed, it will sooner than later grow to become a giant also of the world, in every respect! Unfortunately, this giant nation, endowed with immense human and natural resources, has been held down for too long, bound by the fetters of self-inflicted retardants of poor leadership, greed, and profligacy; and an unfortunate and inexplicable inability to put in place long term national development plans and follow through with same. Any plan at all is better than no plan! President Muhammadu Buhari has the uphill task and onerous duty of redirecting our nation to its desired path of inevitable greatness without any further delay. If he gets it right from the start

The ability to use the right tool for the right job is very important. 

Children are like seeds that when planted, you must take care to nurture them. Pay very close attention to every detail of their daily growth. Watch out for (weeds) and ensure you gently pull them off.  Always pray for your children and declare to them what GOD has said concerning them. Do not train your children in fear. GOD got them. The much you can do for them is to teach them the right things by doing right.  Our children are for signs and for wonders. Long live our children. May GOD in HIS infinite goodness and mercy preserve our children and may they grow to fulfil their purpose in life! AMEN!   Happy Children's day to all the children all over the world! 

Happy Wedding Anniversary to my precious parents.  We grew up seeing you two always together.  No hiding place for us because you supported each other and scolded us together.  I celebrate your love, unity,  one mind. Words are not enough to appreciate GOD for sending me into this world through you. Many more beautiful years I pray for you two and you shall reap the fruits of your labour.  Long live Sir Timothy and Lady Christiana. Love from your daughter...

Did you know that GOD is in that seemly terrible situation you are in right now? Oh yes, HE is.  Remember the children of lsrael who were in slavery for 400 years. GOD actually hardened Pharaoh's heart so that he was so wicked towards the Israelites. But my Bible tells me that GOD allowed it so that HE will make the riches of HIS glory to shine even brighter on those whom HE has shown mercy.  So my dear friend, rejoice, because GOD is working something great out for you. All you need do is to be at peace and trust HIM absolutely. You're coming out of that situation. 

What you make happen for others, GOD will make happen for you. 

SOMETIMES ALL WE NEED IS SOMEONE TO TALK TO. SOMEONE TO LISTEN AND TELL YOU EVERYTHING WILL BE FIND - NOT AN ADVISER. 

For GOD opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. 

Eating (healthy) breakfast does more than give you energy and nutrients. It is a good mood changer. And you will face the rest of your day with readiness and with the right attitude for the task ahead.  Don't forget to take plenty of water. 

There are still angels walking on the planet. Be one to find one. Like will always attract like.

Sometimes, it isn't about how busy you are(which is not bad), BUT by being at the right place at the right time. One moment of encounter can put an end to your years of struggle. Keep your peace and quiet. GOD might be teaching you something that you'd need for the blessings to come.  #Nothing is a waste. Remember that the stone which the builders rejected became the CHIEF CORNER! 

What woman in her right mind wouldn't give herself wholeheartedly to a man who loved her like CHRIST loves the church?........  Whether she has a bubbly, outgoing personality or a quiet and retiring temperament,  she walks with quiet confidence because she safely trusts her husband.   Excerpt from Highly Effective Marriage by Nancy L. Van Pelt

Do not build your wife's hopes with good intentions and then not follow through. 

Bless the LORD, oh my soul, and all that is within me, bless HIS HOLY NAME! Bless the LORD oh my soul, and forget not all HIS benefits.  In all,  my GOD is good to me!  How about you, what do you feel like doing today? 

Background and Upbringing play a key role in forming an adult. For the fact that you once knew someone way back does not mean you should be friends. Ask yourself if the person is really worth keeping as a friend.  There are too many people out there with different ideologies, terrible upbringing, unhealthy past experiences, which could have coined their mindsets and way of living to be in a certain way completely different from you who had a good and comfortable background and upbringing, and would deal with life differently no matter what you have been through.  Who you let into your life can change the course of your life and destiny, negatively or positively. 

We grow through what we go through! Your test could be your testimony. The children of Israel had to go through the wilderness experience before they were qualified to enter their rest- the land with giants, filled with milk an honey.  Most times, GOD wants to toughen us to be able to stand against any situation and come out victorious. If you want to have a story to tell....then this is it! Face the situation like you've got a KING who watches over you.  A lot of people out there do not have a story. They do not know what it means to face challenges.  You want to be heard? Then grow through that situation, conquer it and tell your story! This is your time!

Someone said, that a man's home is the window into his mind. I think I agree with this saying, because when you visit the home of a very creative person, you will see that creativity in the arrangement of his home, no matter how small the apartment is.  I get bored easily whenever it seems I am not coming forth with something new and you can agree with me that it can be frustrating. And most times, the only way to get myself out of boredom is by rearranging my home and giving it a completely different look and I see myself coming up with ideas that have been on my mind. Get positively busy in your mind, and by doing so, you are creating your world,  it might not happen immediately, but as they say, dreams come true.  Have a splendid week!!! 😊😊

IMPOSSIBILITY IS NOTHING. IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR MINDSET.

Tough people survive tough times. When situation pushes you so hard, do not give in or give up. Just remember that GOD says HE will not put more on you that  you can bear. See your deliverance in that seemly difficult situation because, after the storm comes calmness. 

Someone once said, "fail early and make mistakes early, then realise your mistakes and correct them early; that will save you from making expensive mistakes in the future".  Some people failed earlier and became wiser earlier, by learning from their past failures. So, stop hating yourself because you failed; the good news is, you have become wiser. Also, try and learn from other people's failures.  As my late principal would say " failure is no crime, but low aim".

Never you lower your standard to get someone's approval. People should work to get to your standard in order to gain  your approval instead.  Because at the end of the day, your integrity is all that matters. Remember what Job's wife said to him "Are you still holding fast on your integrity? Curse GOD and die". Job maintained his integrity and still trusted GOD even in his predicament. And he got his reward from GOD.  So whether you are single, or married or you are a business person, whatever you are,  hold fast on your integrity. You are not being rigid, as some might insinuate. I have come to realise that people will say all sorts of things to get you to compromise your standard, but do not give in. GOD has given us the ability to choose wisely.  We all have made mistakes, one way or the other, but it is never too late to make amends and get things right. #work in progress.