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We all know that health is wealth. Most times as a result of our busy schedules, people tend to pay less attention to their healths. without good health, how would you then enjoy your wealth? So yesterday, I was able to find out in one of studies that some vegetables prevent breast cancer and I thought I should share with you. Here are a few veggies that prevent breast cancer: Sorry I do not have pictures, but I promise they are all familiar to you. Cabbage Carrots Tomatoes Spinach Broccoli Cauliflower Collards 

Rita has  been dating Lloyd for the past 11 years. They met at the university and everyone, including Rita was convinced that Lloyd was her future husband. After they graduated, Rita was fortunate to get a job, but Lloyd did not. He job hunted for so many years without results. Rita was there for him and they were surviving on her salary and she never complained or made him feel less of himself.  Finally, after so many years of joblessness, Lloyd got a job, a very good one with a fat salary. They looked happy together and everything seemed to be working out as envisaged, until Lloyd broke up with Rita, just a day before his wedding with a lady he just met. Rita slumped and fainted on hearing the news of Lloyd's wedding with another girl. It took a while before she was revived. Lloyd, told Rita that he was sorry to hurt her, and he was going to pay her back all that she spent on him. (Really??? this is heartless!) Right now, Rita's situation is very critical and her fam

Although the song we sang childishly "who sat and watched my infant head, when sleeping on my cradle bed, and  tears of sweet affection shed...my Mother" didn't communicate as much meaning as it does today, the value of a good mother transcends cradle bed metaphor.  The combination of having a mother stand by me and being a mother impacts a great deal on my psychic and leaves me on a balanced rational platform to communicate the relevance of a Godly mother.  Happy mothers day to all the mothers who have truly lived out the essence of motherhood through consistent grooming that sets a child on the right path towards a fulfilling life. Most of the time, our mothers seem to control our lives in so many ways they are not even aware of; this behaviour is manifested on the premise of the genuine care and will for us to make the right choices in life.  As we celebrate the motherly figures in our lives either as a wife, or mother, or legal guardian, our part of t

IF YOU CANNOT TELL YOUR FRIEND HOW YOU FEEL, THAT PERSON IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. 

Each time I watch National Geographic Channel, I see different living creatures live and take control of territories and saturate the environment with their presence which you can feel from quite a distance. Another important behavioural pattern which is very common is about their style of association. Apart from the fact that it's a catastrophic circumstance to find sheep in the midst of a coalition of Lions, it's a dent on the ego of the Lion which leaves the sheep in a helpless state....very helpless.  Another interesting thing about the sea creatures like the fishes and dolphins is how they manifest and entertain viewers in a habitat that is uncomfortable for a lot of creatures. Fishes are created to function in water irrespective of the storm and change in weather, eagles are designed to soar and move into higher torrents, the child of God who knows his right in Christ is meant to record continuous winnings irrespective of the challenges of life.   One of the t

I want to share with you an excerpt from my new book The Right One: How to Successfully Date and Marry the Right Person. I also encourage you to forward this Marriage Builder to your single friends or family members and consider getting them a copy of the book. It is full of practical answers to the most critical questions people face regarding their future. Visit therightonebook.com for more details. Clearly-defined roles and expectations are critical to keeping peace in a relationship. They not only keep the home running, they alleviate confusion and resentment between married couples. Roles serve two purposes in marriage. First, they serve to fulfill each partner's basic needs. Though it's true that no two people are alike, and we all have our own unique traits and personalities, men and women are hard wired with distinctly different needs within a marriage. And though these needs differ in importance from person to person, I've found them to be universal t

A Professor was teaching. He asked his students, 'why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' The students thought for awhile. One said, because we lose our calm. But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Asked the professor. Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry? The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained, 'when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are psychologically close. The distance between

Excellent message: It was their anniversary, and Funke was waiting for her husband Kunle to show up. Things had changed since their marriage, the once couldn't-live-without-each-other cute couple had turned bitter fighting over every little thing. Both didn't like the way things had changed. Funke was waiting to see if Kunle remembered it was their anniversary! Just as the door bell rang, she ran to find her husband wet and smiling with a bunch of flowers in his hand. The two started re-living the old days. Making up for fights, then was the plan for champagne, light music, - and it was raining! It was perfect timing. But the romantic moment was paused when the phone in the bedroom rang. Funke went to pick the phone  up and it was a man who spoke. "Hello ma'am I'm calling from the police station. Is this Mr. Kunle Adeoye's number?" "Yes it is!" "I'm sorry ma'am; but there was an accident and a man

Why not begin your day with a closer walk with Jesus.  In fact today why not take a....... Morning Walk Amidst the dew of early dawn, I took a morning walk. And along with me, I took a Friend, For I felt a need to talk. I unburdened both my heart and soul, And spoke many things: Of plans gone wrong, of failure's pain, And how to live with shattered dreams. My Friend just listened quietly And uttered not a word. For it was His time to listen, And my time to be heard. His sympathetic ear brought peace, As we walked this earthly sod. And I learned to trust life again, On my morning walk with God. Poet, Barbara Cagle Ray

Success is a decision. Your success begins immediately you make up your mind to succeed.  Suddenly, mountains will begin to be your playground. Yes you can! Neme...

If you continue to be a "people's pleaser", you will remain their slaves. Because everything about your life will depend solely on their opinions, directly or indirectly.

Life is not all about you trying to get it all.  It's about going all the way...going the extra miles to reach out to someone.  I hear friends say, "am so busy,  I actually had you in mind but I keep forgetting to call" and so many seemingly reasonable excuses.  If actually that person had been on your mind, isn't it as simple as putting every other thing on hold and reaching out to the person.  The truth is, no matter how busy or tight your schedule is,  no matter the deadline you must meet, know that those things can never be as important as having someone who will be there when the world comes crashing down on you.  I always believe that you must love people and use things, but it is too bad to know that the world we live in now is all about using people and loving things. To have someone to lean on In trying times is a precious gift.  Do not take that friendship for granted. There is always a day of reckoning and as the scripture says "do unto others what

THEY SAY "A BIRD AT HAND IS WORTH MORE THAN THOUSANDS IN THE BUSH". AND I ASK, WHAT IF THAT BIRD GIVES YOU SO MUCH TROUBLE, WOULD YOU STILL KEEP IT AND DEAL WITH ITS TROUBLES, OR WOULD YOU LET IT GO AND WHY?

LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS. THOSE LITTLE THINGS MAKE THE GREAT THINGS.

The more you challenge the word against prevailing circumstances, you begin to experience results. What doesn't challenge you doesn't change you. 

I CELEBRATE ALL THE WOMEN. WITHOUT WOMEN, THE WORLD WILL BE EMPTY. IF YOU HAVE A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE, BE IT YOUR MOTHER, YOUR SISTER, YOUR GIRLFRIEND, YOUR WIFE, CELEBRATE HER. WOMEN ARE THE BEST CREATION AND THE BEST GIFT ANY MAN CAN INVEST IN. WHEN YOU TREAT YOUR WOMAN RIGHT, YOU WILL MAKE YOUR WORLD RIGHT. HAPPY WOMENS' DAY. I CELEBRATE ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAD FOUGHT AND WON, WHO FAILED AND BOUNCED BACK TO BECOME EVEN STRONGER AND BRAVER!!!!

I can imagine the look of surprise,amazement and a sense of humour when you see your little toddler carry our some actions that are obviously associated with adults. She picks your phone, takes it close to her ear and tries to mutter a few words...then she looks at you and smile. You begin to wonder "where did she get that from"? Who taught her how to do that...? As time goes on your child begins to pick up behavioural components and values from her immediate environment where her parents are her first-hand instructors...consciously  or unconsciously. Haven't you noticed that you never taught your child how to use the mimic the way you take your calls or do some of the things he or she does? The reason is simple; children learn by observation. This style of learning is by association and modelling. In reality, you are modelling behaviours which your child will resonate with irrespective of where they fall on the scale of right or wrong, valuable or illicit. Your ch

If a friendship lasts longer than  7 years, psychologists say it will last a life time.  What do you guys think? Please share your thoughts.

In dealing with people, learn to be wise. Do not be in a hurry to tell your life history to someone you barely know out of excitement. The more knowledge of you people know, they more you are at their mercy. 

The best time to sow, is when you do not have much. Instead of eating the little,  isn't it wise to sow it?  By doing so, you will have a harvest of fruits.

Be careful what you sow,  because you will always reap it. Sow kindness and you will reap kindness.  Sow love and you reap love. Sow hatred and you will reap hatred.

Hello friends,  I trust you all had a great day.  Mine was splendid.  Just a little word for you. The world we live in is a very small place. And as such, be kind to people because you will always meet them somewhere,  somehow as long as you live on this planet. The super man today,  who is mean and full of himself, looking down on people and maltreating them,  could become as poor as a church rat, while, the ill treated one could become great tomorrow.  That is the irony of life.   So, if you are privileged to be in a position where you can be of help to people, kindly do so. Because an adage says "be kind to people you meet on your way up; because you might meet them on your way down". Show some kindness.  Forgive one another, apologise when you hurt someone, be thankful and live life to the fullest.

AN OBJECT WILL REMAIN IN A STATE OF REST UNTIL YOU APPLY A FORCE ON IT. 

WHAT YOU MAKE HAPPEN FOR OTHERS, GOD WILL MAKE HAPPEN FOR YOU.

There are various helpful tips on how you can kick-start your journey to become self-employed. Although the thought can be daunting, no doubts about that, but through the right direction, you can become self-employed. It can also be really a fun and exciting adventure therefore keep the following requisites as you journey. The first thing you need to consider is going through personal evaluation. This development strategy will help you identify your strengths, your weaknesses, your interests, your skills, and things you should totally avoid. That does not mean you would not take risks, but risks that are highly detrimental will cause an impediment on your potential results. Do a survey on the industry, or trade, or business idea you have in mind, read about people who have done similar things and engage your creative ideas. Take a drive down the streets that are business friendly, observe, ask questions...roll your sleeves and get to work.  Register your business name so that