As we live life, it's important to put into cognizance the way we treat and respond to people whether they are engaged in the right activities, or their actions are off tangent with the right principles.
Here's a modest proposal: Make up your mind that for the rest of this year, you wouldn't judge your friends and people around you no matter what you experience with them or what you see them express, rather, offer to help the right kind of help that will salvage the circumstance.
Buying into judgement blurs your heart from seeing the good in people who are designed to contribute meaningfully to your life assignment. Take note of your thoughts and the things you say. Be completely aware of the times when you are being overly critical, and ask yourself why you feel that way. Are your thoughts rooted in reality, or are they coming from a place of fear and insecurity? Once you notice yourself being judgemental, you can take actions to reverse this self-destructive behaviour.
it's a simple fact that people spend significant amount of time together tend to pick up each other's behaviours and characteristics. If you have friends or acquaintances who are harshly critical to themselves and other people, chances are you will begin to do same. Therefore it's important to sieve people you associate with because you might not even be aware of the level of influence you are yielding to.
Compassion is the key to breaking the pattern of being overly judgemental. See the good in people and if you need to offer advice, do it with clear motives without an undertone of judgement.
Let your light keep shinning!!!
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